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The 34 Best 4th Anniversary Gifts to Show Your Love

Best 4th Anniversary Gifts to Show Your Love

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If you’re looking to celebrate your fourth anniversary and prefer to follow tradition, the established gifts are fruit and flowers—which are meant to represent the blossoming of your relationship and the beauty that comes with sticking by each other’s side through thick and thin.

“The fourth year is about being in full bloom,” says event designer Jung Lee. She adds that it’s nice to follow the sentiment and the theme “with an inventive gift that has fruits or florals included in its design.” If you want a more modern gift, opt for an appliance. The timing of this gift theme is perfect because, at the four-year mark, you might be ready to replace some registry favorites. Whether you stick to the themes or go in your own direction (that’s fine, too!), consider your partner’s interests and tastes. Opt for something thoughtful, or go the practical route with something they’ll use daily.

Whether it’s craft beer or kombucha, make-your-own specialty beverages are super on-trend right now. If your spouse is always game to try a new culinary creation, this DIY limoncello kit is the perfect gift—plus, you can enjoy the fruits of your labor together!

The Bouqs offers gorgeous direct-to-consumer florals for same or next-day delivery. Because the flowers are freshly cut, they continue to bloom for a few days after you receive them, so you're guaranteed to have fresh flowers for a bit longer than you would with a traditional arrangement. Feeling stuck on which bouquet to choose? You're in luck—the brand has an entire section devoted to anniversaries.

When it comes to brewing delicious coffee beverages at home, Nespresso machines are the cream of the crop. The brand's Vertuo Plus features options to make both espresso drinks and coffee in a variety of sizes, as well as a milk frother.

This contemporary, fruit-forward scent diffuser from Jo Malone is the perfect way to pay homage to the fourth-anniversary theme. Infusing your favorite room with delicious aromas of basil and mandarin orange is a delightful way to be reminded of your anniversary every time you come home.

Every candle lover appreciates the intricate scent profiles and chic, minimalist design of Diptyque candles. The brand's iconic "Roses" candle is one of our absolute favorites—it's sure to fill your home with a lovely floral aroma and ambient candlelight. The petite size of this candle also makes it an excellent bridal shower favor for your main crew.

These real roses are specially treated so they can last up to a year with proper care. They come in a variety of colors and display options, and some designs even include a storage drawer that can be used as a keepsake box.

Nothing says “I love you” like helping your spouse with household chores. Make it even easier with the Roomba robotic vacuum—you can control the device with an app to clean at any time, even when you’re out of the house.

Everyone loves pizza, but it can be hard to achieve that coveted fresh, crispy crust in your traditional oven at home. This tabletop pizza oven from Breville solves that problem. By cooking your dough on a pizza stone at ultrahigh heat, your homemade crust will taste as if it came straight from a wood-fired oven.

Not only is homemade pasta absolutely delicious, but it’s also fun to make—especially on date night. This classic Italian-style pasta maker has two different attachments: one that rolls dough to make ravioli and one for making fresh fettuccine.

Smeg’s retro-chic designs make this toaster perfect for gifting. Available in four different colors, this four-slice toaster is a high-quality piece that doubles as a bright décor accent on your kitchen counter.

Bring a luxurious date night activity to your own home with this electric fondue set that's perfect for dipping everything, from your favorite bread and cheese to strawberries and chocolate.

This kitchen appliance is an easy way to recreate delicious, restaurant-quality meals (think juicy steaks or creamy eggs) at home. Your food cooks inside silicone bags submerged in water, allowing you to achieve the perfect temperature and texture.

How darling is this candle? This hand-painted, 6-inch pillar candle comes monogrammed with the lovebirds' initials and burns for up to 35 hours indoors. With a gorgeous design of flowers and greenery, you can also choose to put your wedding date on the candle as an homage to four years as a family.

Say cheers with fruity mixers including Strawberry Pomegranate, Grapefruit Jalapeño, Rosemary Lemon Honey, Pineapple Basil Lime, Cucumber Mint Lime, Pear Honey Vanilla Lime, and Blueberry Lemon Sage. Each 4-ounce bottle contains a handcrafted mixer that sets the stage for a delightful mocktail or cocktail. FYI: The set makes around 14 mixed drinks.

For an anniversary treat you won’t soon forget, indulge in Lady M's Strawberry Swirl Mille Crêpes. This gem is from the celebrated Japanese-French bakery Lady M Confections, based in New York City; every bite is pillowy perfection. The tart, creamy, sweet cake seamlessly melds strawberry-infused sponge cake, delicate crêpes, and strawberry pieces, crowned with swirls of strawberry pastry cream and strawberry powder.

An anniversary breakfast in bed is always a winning idea. Up the ante by bringing your sweetheart a special meal in bed (or serving porch-side snacks) on this tray with helpful handles for portability. The City of Love is adorned with roses on this handsome piece that’s made of wood and built to last. It even comes wrapped with a satin bow if you’re not much of a gift-wrapping guru.

A fitting reminder for any relationship—without rain, the flowers won’t blossom. Even better, we love the retro-inspired design of this flower print. Available in sizes from 5 by 7 inches to 20 by 28 inches, you can also add the frame of your choice for an additional fee. 

Pay homage to the floral theme with this box of a dozen preserved roses that are sourced from Ecuador and last for up to a year. Choose from Cherry, Cotton Candy, Marshmallow Fluff, Blush, or Raspberry roses, and customize the box by adding a fragrance, message, gold appliquéing, and more. 

Upgrade your houseplant landscape with this heart-shaped flower nestled in one of five handsome pot colors (Stone, Clay, Charcoal, Slate, or Indigo). Said to symbolize strong relationships, as well as hospitality and luck, it’s certain to bring a pop of joy and color to whatever coffee table or bureau upon which you place it. If you’re looking to spend a little more, try the Colorful Collection, which contains the red anthurium along with a yellow bromeliad and bromeliad summer. 

Flowers and bees are a match made in pollen heaven, and this organic Italian honey bundle is a match made in pantry heaven. The gift box contains Wildflower, Sulla, Wild Pine Tree, and Lemon Blossom honeys, bee pollen, a golden spoon, and a recipe booklet. Bee prepared for some delicious meals and beverages. 

What can’t this oven do? Well, we’ll tell you what it can do: Act as a convection or steam oven, operate in steam-bake mode, air fry, dehydrate, grill, reheat, toast, proof, and prepare rice. This handy apparatus makes cooking and cleanup a breeze thanks to 40 preset recipes you can make at the touch of a button and a built-in steam self-cleaning function.

We cannot get enough of the Sunday Dinner at the Grove scent, comprised of charred citrus and notes that evoke the California woods. We also love this innovative candle system that features a concrete vessel (in Light Grey or Dark Grey) with recyclable, refillable scents that can be swapped as you please thanks to a magnetic connection that seals with a click. Made from soy wax and meticulously poured in the USA, other fragrances include Last Drink by the Bonfire, Behind the Unmarked Door, and On the Open Desert Road. 

Somehow, you’ve been married for four years and never got around to replacing that cracked ring dish (or buying one in the first place). Behold: Rifle Paper Co.’s gorgeous ring dish, available in Wildwood, Garden Party Bouquet, Hydrangea, and Blossom designs. 

Made from matte paper and premium chipboard, this Minted puzzle can be personalized with the photo of your choice (time to take a walk down memory lane and look through your wedding snapshots!), all of which is surrounded by a flower border in a Rust, Garden, or Peacock theme color scheme. Each puzzle comes packaged within a patterned muslin pouch, enclosed in a hinged box adorned with gold foil accents for a gifting-ready presentation. If you really want the package to dazzle, you can order it with gift wrap, too.

Has your partner been eyeing electric scooters for years? Surprise them with this stellar model from NIU, a 2024 iF Product Design Award recipient. Available in White or Grey, this scooter goes up to nearly 25 miles per charge with a top speed of 17.4 miles.

It’s time for a new coffee machine, as the one you registered for a few years back could likely use a spiffy replacement. Spring for this personalized espresso experience tailored to the user’s taste buds from Philips, and you’ll be so glad you did. The easy-to-use panel lets you adjust the strength and quantity of your coffee, and you can top off your beverage with milk froth thanks to the LatteGo Milk System. Even better, enjoy easy maintenance courtesy of the machine alerting you when you need to replace the filter and descaling only necessary after around 5,000 cups.

For your botanical anniversary, why not hang something as beautiful as this? Choose the size and frame style you like, and if you’re feeling generous, throw in Les Plantes I. What’s more, you’re supporting an independent artist with every purchase that you make. 

Treat your forevermore to air-fried goodness from the number-one air fryer brand in the U.S. With nearly 23,000 five-star Amazon ratings, customers call it an “excellent air fryer for two” and say that it “can cook more things than I thought possible.” Note: Different sizes and colors are also for sale.

Your fourth anniversary is a great time to cozy up in coordinating plush robes. Made from 100 percent Turkish cotton, these robes are designed with the same feel as the brand's famous towels. Buying a set ensures you're each comfortable, and may even inspire a relaxing date night in.

These faux-fur slippers will add a touch of luxury to your loved one's loungewear, and they come personalized with up to three letters of your choice. Find them in four soft shades with 12 thread color options to choose from.

Wüsthof knives are kitchen staples for good reason. This 10-piece knife block set will upgrade your kitchen arsenal with quality pieces that are meant to last. We like that the block comes in three shades to match any kitchen décor.

There's no better way to pamper your spouse than with a luxe and comfy blanket. A weighted option like this one helps promote a good night's rest (or just a solid nap on the couch) and comes in attractive colors and patterns to make it a stylish gift. Each blanket is filled with lead-free glass beads to add weight.

If your sweetheart loves to sip tea while they check their horoscope, they'll love this Chinese Zodiac-inspired tea. The tea's sweet and subtly spicy notes of carrot cake and decadent packaging make it a thoughtful and unique gift.

Gear up for a scrumptious pancake breakfast. This boxed set contains a wheat and malt pancake mix, blueberries, sour cherries, and maple syrup. You'll both enjoy making a classic breakfast together.

What to Look for in 4th Anniversary Gifts

  • Quality and Thoughtfulness: When shopping for something special for your favorite person, it's important to put some thought into the decision. You want to show them you listen and care about their interests. You can never go wrong with something sweet and sentimental, especially since the traditional fourth-anniversary gift is fruit and flowers. On the other hand, a practical gift you know they'll love is also a good way to go. First, think about high-quality gifts that they'll actually use and love in their everyday lives or something that you two can do together.
  • Romance: "Let's not forget the romance," says Lee. "It could be anything from aromatherapy for your bedroom to rose-engraved Champagne glasses to toast you. I also love surprise gifts for each other with a beautiful handwritten note on cotton paper."
  • Delivery Window: You don’t want to miss your special day because of shipping delays or designated shipping windows (such as for flowers or food) where the package arrives after your anniversary. As always, order gifts online with some wiggle room before the big day. In the case of anniversary gifts, take note that customization may take longer than standard orders so if you ordered something without rush shipping, factor in enough time for delivery before your anniversary date.
FAQ
  • What are the traditional and modern fourth anniversary gifts?

    The traditional fourth-anniversary theme is fruit or flowers, as a symbol of the sweetness of your marriage and your love blossoming. The modern gift option is a home appliance, as your home together continues to evolve.

  • Do you have to stick to the traditional or modern anniversary themes?

    Definitely not! While the traditional and modern themes can help guide your purchase, what matters most is that it's something your partner will love and appreciate.

    "As long as it reflects you as a couple, there are no rules. Every couple has their own viewpoint on what their journey as a couple means and represents to them. Just like every snowflake is different, so are couples," says Lee.

  • What are some other unique anniversary gift ideas?

    "You can get a gorgeous box that serves as a keepsake. Fill it with personal treasures and love notes that have meaning to you as a couple," Lee recommends. "You can also give a beautiful unique whimsical letter opener with a love note to your partner."

  • What are some nice ways to celebrate a fourth anniversary?

    "One of my favorite things to do is to recreate your wedding dinner with a private chef on your wedding china," Lee says. "So often your wedding goes incredibly fast; it is a beautiful moment to revisit your special day."

Why Trust Brides

Michela Stevenson has contributed to Brides since 2014. She was the Assistant Wedding Style Editor at Brides until 2017, and she has worked as a wedding planner and a wedding stylist. Perri Ormont Blumberg is a New York City-based writer who has contributed to a range of publications, including Martha Stewart, Business Insider, and Southern Living.

  • Jung Lee is an event architect and the founder of Fête, Jung Lee NY, and Slowdance.

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