What to Wear to a Bridal Shower as the Bride

Style-wise, the most important thing on a bride's checklist is, of course, finding the perfect wedding dress. But once that's done, the true fun begins, as shopping for pre- and post-bridal events—particularly your bridal shower outfit—can officially take priority. Whether you're celebrating your upcoming nuptials at a champagne brunch or keeping things casual at a backyard soirée, finding an appropriate bridal shower outfit will set the stage for what guests can expect on your actual big day.

That being said, it can be difficult to find the right look since this celebration is oftentimes planned by the maid of honor, close friends, or bridesmaids, all of whom may not divulge enough information to help you find a suitable look. Plus, many brides question whether or not they should wear white and don't necessarily know the general style rules to follow for this soirée. On top of that, shopping, in general, can be hard, so finding a look that's comfortable and looks great in photos isn't always an easy task.

Luckily, we spoke with expert stylists who filled us in on exactly what is sartorially needed for this fête. Ahead, read on to learn exactly what a bride should wear to a bridal shower.

How to Decide What to Wear to a Bridal Shower as a Bride

There are a few things to consider when searching for a bridal shower look, notes personal stylist Erika Cartledge. "I'm pretty squarely on team 'wear what you want, it's your day,' but there are some things that can help inform that decision," she shares. For starters, pay close attention to the weather when choosing an ensemble, as you'll want to wear something appropriate for the temperature and season. "For a spring bridal shower at 2:00 p.m. at a country club, the bride may feel more comfortable in a flowery summer dress, while a 10:00 a.m. brunch at a private home during the fall would call for something a bit more cozy," explains stylist Lesley Brickman.

The venue, dress code, and overall theme of the shower are other considerations to keep in mind. More specifically, a bridal shower at a fancy restaurant or country club will call for a different outfit than a soirée at a relaxed locale. Is there a specific dress code? Brides are expected to adhere to those style rules, as they help keep the entire event (and pictures) cohesive. "I like to talk through the theme and colors of the party with my bridal clients so we can incorporate any of those details as well," Brickman adds.

Once you've narrowed down the above factors, though, your final decision should be based on what makes you feel comfortable. After all, in order to look your best you need to feel your best. "A bride should also think about what she feels most comfortable wearing and not use the bridal shower to invent a new persona," Cartledge advises.

The Top Bridal Shower Style Tips to Know

Here, we break down the top three style tips all brides should know when searching for the perfect bridal shower outfit.

Select a color that makes you feel confident (even if it's not white).

While white seems to be the shade most brides choose for a bridal shower, both Brickman and Cartledge agree that there's no rule on what color you should wear. "A lot of my brides don't opt for white at all, instead choosing a color that makes them feel confident or matches their wedding," Cartledge says. "Others go for pretty prints or fun patterns. Dressing for your bridal shower should be fun and express your personality." In other words, wear white if you want, but it's totally okay if you'd rather opt for a different hue.

That being said, Brickman does share, "I think it’s nice to have a 'bridal moment' whenever possible during the engagement and have the [person] of honor wear white of some kind, even if it’s a white-based print or accessories."

Lean into your personal style.

Cartledge encourages brides to stick with their personal style and notes that she's pulled everything from white pants suits to white midi dresses for clients when dressing them for this event. Meaning, if dresses aren't your go-to, feel free to find an ensemble that aligns with your aesthetic.

For example, Cartledge recommends jumpsuits, which are flattering, comfortable, and versatile. "There are so many styles and options [of jumpsuits], you can really glam them up for your special day. Think: Lace, sequins, rhinestones," she says. Brickman also recommends matching sets, like a top and skirt, shorts, or pants.

Have fun with accessories.

Accessories are always a great way to dress up your look and have a little fun with your personal style. "Pop on a fun, short veil at some point during the shower for Instagram-worthy photos with your friends," Brickman suggests. Have heirloom jewelry? "Your bridal shower is a great time to wear something that has been in your family," Cartledge says. This can also be a nice way to honor a family member you've lost.

Another tip? If you aren't wearing white, you can add extra bridal touches to your look with white accessories. Opt for pearls or rhinestones on a belt or bag for something that's fun without being too overwhelming, Cartledge suggests. Lastly, Brickman shares, "If the bride is going to change her last name, the bridal shower may be a fun venue to try out her future monogram on an accessory such as a clutch or piece of jewelry."

5 Bridal Shower Outfit Ideas for Brides to Consider

Ready to begin the search and start shopping? Below, Cartledge and Brickman provide a few outfit ideas that you can follow to find something perfect.

• A cocktail dress and heels. This is a go-to look for a reason, as it's adaptable and looks dressed up no matter how you style it. "A-line and wrap dresses are versatile, and you can easily add interest to these silhouettes with an off-the-shoulder detail or sleeveless option," Cartledge says.
• A pantsuit or jumpsuit. This can be a chic and unique option that works well for most types of celebrations and themes. "They're so unexpected in the very best way," Cartledge says.
• Luxe fabrics. "Think a satin slip dress paired with a great pair of statement earrings and a faux fur crop jacket," Cartledge says, while also noting that this is perfect for a glamorous bride.
• A sun dress. "If the venue is a friend or family member’s home, a more casual sun dress can fit in perfectly," Brickman says. If the shower feels more casual, keep your look simple with sandals or flats.
• A blazer dress. This trendy option is a favorite for Cartledge. "There are so many options in different lengths, colors, and with amazing details like bold buttons or cut-outs," she says. "Another unexpectedly chic option."