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Brides / Jaclyn Mastropasqua
Whether you're planning to pop a bottle of bubbly or send a piece of snail mail, proposing to your bridal party can be a fun and creative experience, and finding the perfect gift to accompany your proposal is part of the fun. A bridal party proposal present is a unique way to show your loved ones how much they mean to you.
Plenty of options are available, from bouquets and bridesmaid gift boxes packed with goodies to customizable items. "If you wish to enhance the 'proposal,' consider adding their monogram to note cards with a custom wax seal and your favorite colored wax," suggests Emily Campbell of GoBella Event Design. If you plan on gifting custom gift boxes, look for premade options or find boxes that are easy to assemble. It's also appealing to include items they can use during your wedding journey and beyond, like travel cosmetic bags or sunglasses for a destination wedding.
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Show your appreciation to your bridesmaid by gifting her a self-care package, like this luxe set from Flamingo Estate. It includes a jasmine and damask rose candle, a bar soap made of 100 percent essential oils, and a hand soap formulated with their signature scent.
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Known for its signature yellow label, this high-end Champagne is loved by many for its refreshing, crisp taste. The gold gift box adds an extra elegance to its presentation, making it a perfect gift for your bridesmaid.
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You can’t go wrong with scented candles, especially from the iconic luxury brand Diptyque. This set is handmade in France and features three of their most popular scents, including Baies (or Berries), Figuier (or Fig Tree), and Rose.
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Show your bridesmaid how much you would love for her to be in your wedding with this adorable mini heart case. Made of Italian pebbled leather, this bag is the perfect size for lipstick, keys, jewelry, and other small accessories. You can even have this monogrammed with her initials for an extra special touch.
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Your bridesmaid won't be able to say no when seeing this beautiful Ladurée box filled with 28 delicious macarons. These gluten-free treats are a chef’s choice of assorted flavors, including blackcurrant violet, caramel, chocolate, coffee, and lemon.
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You will delight your bridesmaid-to-be with this gorgeous and delicious box of artisan gelatos. It includes celebrity chef Nancy Silverton's top vegan flavors, all shipped in an insulated box to stay cold. Each of the nine seasonal gelatos is perfectly proportioned in a 4-ounce pint and packaged in a clear kraft gift box with a grosgrain ribbon.
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A gift that's both practical and stylish? Yes, please! This wavy-trim notecard set is available in eight color choices and is printed on textured paper. For an additional fee, you can also upgrade to premium card stock. Personalize the notecard with their name and address for a custom gift.
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Opt for a snail mail proposal with this charming and romantic postcard from Minted. The front design can be chosen from various color palettes, and a photo and personal note can be added on the back. Three types of paper are available: the brand's signature high-quality weighted paper, pearlescent paper, and recycled paper. This card will have your bridesmaids rushing to the post office to send you a yes.
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We love these retro-style gift boxes because they come empty and can be filled with customized goodies. The lid is printed with the big question on top, so your loved ones will know immediately what the special occasion is for. Add sunglasses, compacts, squad hoodies, champagne flutes, and more—there are endless possibilities.
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This chic gift box is brimming with wedding day essentials. We love that you can personalize the lid with your bridesmaid's name, and it's filled with everything from lip balm to a candle tin to other personalized goodies, including a customized sticker that’s just the right size for a mini champagne bottle. Customize the lid with one of your wedding colors, or choose your bridesmaids' favorite colors. To top it off, there's also a blank card for you to include a handwritten note.
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This blend perfectly combines robust African coffee with smooth Central American beans. Exploradora is a “women-grown, women-owned” company that supports female coffee growers worldwide. Upgrade the gift with a cute handmade mug or coffee scoop.
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Use this gift box to propose to your bridal party and make them feel like the queens they are. It's personalized with a name on the top and includes bath salts, a soy candle, matches, and a gift tag for a handwritten note. This gift would pair well with a spa day so they can take the luxurious experience home.
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Any of your bridesmaids will be thrilled when they unzip this personalized makeup bag that reveals the big question on the inside. It comes in four neutral colors, and it's made from durable cotton canvas fabric. We also love that it doubles as a unique gift box, and you can fill it with a few beauty goodies for wedding day makeup looks.
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These handmade necklaces come stamped with an initial and a personalized proposal card. Choose from gold, silver, or rose gold for the finish so it pairs well with other jewelry your bridesmaids may already own. They'll be sure to wear this long after the wedding has passed.
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This natural soy wax candle has a sweet and bubbly scent with mandarin, grapefruit, apple, pineapple, and champagne notes. Personalize it with the message callout on the side of the box, which lets you list your bridesmaid's name and the reason for celebrating.
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Go with a plant if you want an unforgettable and long-lasting proposal gift. This jaunty, joyful jade pothos comes comfortably potted in a planter that’s hard not to adore. Include a thoughtful card, and you’ve got an irresistible proposal gift—and don’t worry, this plant is super easy to care for, so your bridesmaids don't have to have a green thumb.
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If you and your loved ones have a sweet tooth, consider this fun Sugarfina gift box. Packaged in a charming slider box, the curated box has three bespoke gummies, including Champagne Bears, Champagne Bubbles, and Rosé Roses. We love that it already comes with the big question loud and clear on the packaging.
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From whimsical magnets to a bridesmaid-themed coffee mug, this gift is packed with goodies to delight your squad. The real surprise, however, will be the proposal they’ll uncover when they open the box. This pick can't be customized, unlike other options on this list, so we recommend adding a handwritten letter.
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These custom-made, freshly baked cookies are the perfect way to pop the question. Available in a pack of two, you can customize the cookies to have the question iced on top and choose between a gift box or cellophane bag for their container. This gift is both heartwarming and delicious.
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How adorable is this monogram necklace? A great gift especially for lifelong friends, the fun bubble letters will make your friends nostalgic for the days of passing notes in class. Personalize the gift with their initial and they'll wear this fun piece forever.
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Bring some pop art to their style with this artsy bag charm. It's made from leather and looks so cute on any purse. Plus, your whole bridal party will share a matching charm, making it extra special.
What to Look for in a Bridesmaid Proposal Gift
- Thoughtfulness: Above all, a bridesmaid proposal gift should express your excitement and a heartfelt expression of how much you value their friendship. By choosing a customized bridesmaid proposal gift, let your future bridesmaids know you genuinely value and care for them. They'll feel appreciated and honored to be part of your squad on such a special day.
- Wedding Location and Theme: You might also consider the theme, location, or aesthetic of your wedding (if you've already planned that far ahead). Are you throwing a destination wedding? Include personalized sunglasses, a customized luggage tag, or a map in your bridesmaid proposal gift box. If you're planning a dreamy outdoor spring wedding, a bouquet with a handwritten card is a great option. Sparkling wine is also an ideal bridesmaid proposal gift for holidays or New Year's Eve ceremonies.
- Budget: You don't want to blow your wedding budget before sending out the guest list. Consider carefully how much you want to spend on bridesmaid proposal gifts and consider factors, including how many people will be in your bridal party. You don't have to spend much for a thoughtful bridesmaid proposal gift.
Why Trust Brides
Brides contributor Elizabeth MacLennan has been scouring marketplaces worldwide—and the web—hunting down that just right object for over 15 years as a prop stylist. Read: she’s seen just about everything when it comes to gifts! With a discerning eye, she considers quality, function, and design when vetting products. Former Senior Editor Kate Donovan contributed additional products and insights for this story. Additional research was done by writer and editor Kim Grundy.
- Alicia Mae is the owner, CEO, and lead wedding planner of ILÉ Events, a New Jersey-based event planning agency.
- Emily Campbell is the founder and executive producer of Go Bella Event Design, a Colorado-based event design firm.
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