Corsages Versus Boutonnières: What's the Difference?

Flower arrangements are a central part of all special events, particularly weddings. From the color scheme to the actual floral choice, beautiful blooms have the ability to elegantly transform the vibe of a celebration and establish a clear theme. Best of all, there are a myriad of ways to incorporate flowers into your big day, options that go beyond the traditional décor elements.

For example, while your mind may instantly go to centerpieces and bouquets when you think of wedding florals, smaller arrangements, like corsages and boutonnières, are just as important to the aesthetic of a wedding, as they can easily add a unique and personal touch to your special day. That said, these smaller pieces don't always get the recognition they deserve, since many individuals aren't fully aware of the etiquette rules surrounding these floral accessories—especially if they haven't worn a corsage or boutonnière prior to walking down the aisle. Luckily, that's about to change!

If you're currently searching for the differences and similarities between corsages and boutonnières, we asked a floral expert to compare these two wedding details. Ahead, here's everything you need to know.

What Is a Corsage?

A corsage is a small bouquet of flowers that is either pinned on to someone's clothing or worn around their wrist, shares floral designer Teresa Eoff. “When deciding [between] a wrist or pin on, think about the event and if there will be a lot of activities that will compromise the delicate nature of the corsage, such as hugging or jumping,” the florist further shares. “In this case, the best option would be a wristlet as they tend to be more durable.”

Typically made of made from a combination of fresh or dried flowers, jewels, and ribbons, these accessories are usually sported by women and can be worn to everything from prom and homecoming dances to nuptials and formal Mother’s Day events. But, in general, a corsage is meant to be worn as a symbol of honor and is used to signify important family members and friends at weddings, though brides can wear this accessory if they'd like.

What Is a Boutonnière?

A boutonnière is “a small floral bouquet worn on a lapel of a tuxedo or suit jacket," shares Eoff. They, too, consist of fresh or dried flowers, jewels, sentimental tokens, and occasionally ribbons, though the elements of a boutonnière can vary based on personal preferences, What's more, according to Eoff, there are three standard types of boutonnière designs to know: pin-on, lapel, and pocket square.

Pin-on boutonnières are the most traditional choice and are usually made of one flower pinned on a lapel. Similarly, lapel boutonnières are also placed on the suit jacket but generally cover the whole lapel for a statement look. Pocket square boutonnières, on the other hand, are placed in the breast pocket of a suit jacket, in lieu of a traditional fabric accessory. In all, the best part about all three designs is that they can work for most celebrations (just be sure to use florals that "match the theme and color palette of the event,” says Eoff.)

The Differences Between Corsages and Boutonnières

While corsages and boutonnières are often worn at the same events, there are a few differences between these floral pieces. Traditionally, corsages are worn by women (typically by the mother of the bride and groom), either pinned on the left side of their chest or worn on the wrist. Meanwhile, a boutonnière is typically worn by men (mainly by the groom and groomsmen) on the left lapel of their suit jackets. Eoff does note, however, that corsages and boutonnières have become more gender-neutral and can absolutely be worn by everyone.

In terms of design, Eoff says that corsages are often more elaborate than boutonnières. “Traditionally, the boutonnières are smaller than corsages with only one focal flower,” she explains.

The Similarities Between Corsages and Boutonnières

The number one similarity between a corsage and a boutonnière is that they're both worn at formal events. Additionally, both can be customized with sentimental tokens to complement your personal style. “I had a groom who added parts of a fishing hook to his boutonnières because they all loved to fish,” says Eoff. “Jewels and rhinestones are also able to be added.”

Finally, both pieces are worn to signify a VIP at an event. For a wedding, specifically, Eoff explains that this distinction can extend to any person who is participating in or contributing to the wedding, including the wedding party, parents, siblings, ring bearers, the officiant, ushers, and escorts.