14 Lesbian Wedding Outfit Ideas for Same-Gender Nuptials

Two brides smiling in lace wedding dresses, one strapless mermaid and one trumpet with a V-neck — Photo by Natura Collective

If you’re an LGBTQ+ bride on the hunt for the perfect wedding outfit, it’s important to choose one that expresses your personality and identity. Maybe you’re a minimalist who envisions making your grand entrance in a sleek satin gown, or perhaps you’re more of a maximalist who wants to deck out your attire in beaded accents, sparkles, and floral appliqués. Want something a bit unique? You can even consider custom-creating an outfit for a one-of-a-kind look that no one will have. Simply put, there are tons of silhouettes available to shop for today, including suits, minis, jumpsuits, and two-piece getups (among other options).

Searching for more style tips? Ahead, we rounded up some of our favorite sapphic and lesbian wedding outfits from real brides. While you can certainly use these ideas as a jumping-off point, know that you can tweak any of these ensembles to fit your vision and personal aesthetic.

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A Modern Mermaid Dress

Bride in a strapless mikado dress with a trumpet silhouette — Photo by Henry & Mac

A minimalist canvas draped with a sumptuous fabric is tailor-made for modern LGBTQ+ brides. This bride’s strapless mikado dress with a trumpet silhouette and a ruched bodice, which she debuted at her contemporary and ethereal celebration in Newport, is an excellent example. While clad in this frock, you’ll make a statement in a subtle and graceful way. Consider donning this type of design at an art museum venue or an industrial warehouse.

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Layers of Fluffy Tulle

Bride in wedding dress with a tulle skirt and floral embroidery on the bodice — Photo by Lauren Baker Photography

There’s something especially dreamy about a wedding dress wrapped in tulle, given that this fluffy fabric is a signal of luxury, romance, and fairy tales. If this sounds up your alley, one idea is an A-line gown with a tiered tulle skirt and a semi-sheer lace bodice, which is what this LGBTQ+ bride dressed in for her DIY wedding in Minnesota. The full skirt brought depth and dimension to her outfit in a new and exciting way.

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Long Sleeves With Floral Appliqués

bride walking down the aisle in a long-sleeve dress with 3D floral accents — Photo by Justine Milton

Are you getting married in the cooler months? A long-sleeved ensemble will keep you warm while radiating sophistication. Choose a frock adorned with floral appliqués to match a garden venue or botanical aesthetic. We love how this bride even accessorized with a floral hairpin to enhance the flower motif at her organic micro wedding in Canada.

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A Chic Jumpsuit With a Billowing Cape

bride in a custom jumpsuit with removable cape holds a bouquet of coral florals — Photo by Brett Seay

A jumpsuit is a lovely choice for lesbians who want something classic and modern. Not to mention, this style of clothing is movable, breathable, and comfortable, and you can easily hit the dance floor without having to constantly manage your look. We particularly love how this bride incorporated a cape with her getup—a trendy addition for those who'd like to pay homage to the classic wedding dress silhouette.

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A Sleek White Suit

bride wearing an all-white monochromatic suit with a jacket, dress shirt, pants, and tie — Photo by Chi-Chi Ari Love

For same-gender brides whose personal style is more masculine or androgynous, consider wearing a suit as your wedding day outfit. Choose a jacket, dress shirt, pants, and any other accessories in a light and airy hue, for a monochromatic look that is clean and polished—which is what this bride sported for her at-home elopement in Brooklyn.

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A Princess-Worthy Ball Gown

bride in Chantilly lace Oscar de la Renta gown and fingertip veil — Photo by Catalina Jean Photography

Maybe your daily style is more feminine and you’ve always envisioned wearing a wedding dress on your special day. In that case, a traditional bridal silhouette might be best for you. Take, for example, this strapless ball gown embroidered with Chantilly lace, which this bride wore when she traded vows at her Italian garden fête. The neckline, silhouette, and fabric make this frock look and feel classic and romantic, and it’s versatile enough to suit any type of venue or theme.

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A Column Dress Trimmed With Feathers

Bride in a beaded fringe wedding dress with a deep V-neck while holding an all-white rose bouquet — Photo by John & Joseph

Even if you’ve decided that a gown is the perfect outfit for your nuptials, you don’t have to wear a traditional style—and through the use of fabric and texture, you can make your dress look unexpected and unique. When this bride said “I do” at her old Hollywood wedding in Beverly Hills, she donned a white gown bedecked in linear beaded accents and feathers scattered across the skirt. The mix of accents evokes a fun, playful look, while the low back and plunging neckline add a bold edge.

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Sparkly Embroidery With a Full Skirt

Bride wearing a strapless sparkly lace mermaid gown while holding a bouquet — Photo by Natura Collective

If you’re looking for a glamorous sapphic and lesbian wedding outfit, take cues from this bride at her rustic-chic nuptials on Long Island. A strapless mermaid gown covered in sparkly lace detailing, complete with side cut-outs, will demand attention when you arrive at your ceremony venue. Whether your everyday style leans on the glitzy side, your day-of aesthetic is opulent, you’re throwing down at a swanky ballroom, or all of the above, this garment will help tell a cohesive story.

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A Floral Jacquard Ensemble

Two brides, one in floral jacquard suit and one in white suit jacket, taking portraits — Photo by Lena Mirisola

If you’re considering taking the suit route for your wedding, you don’t have to choose between just black or white. A floral jacquard pattern with pops of blush and olive (which made an appearance at this bride’s art museum affair in Boston) is one option that’s different and daring. Not only did it feel contemporary, but it also happened to match the couple’s cherry blossom theme.

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Elegant All-Over Lace

Bride sitting on a blush velvet couch in an all-over lace wedding dress — Photo by Natura Collective

Lace is one of the most popular wedding dress materials, meaning that it appeals to many different bridal styles. In addition to your own personal look, if you’re tying the knot at a formal affair with a black-tie dress code, this fabric will suit the occasion. There’s a multitude of ways to showcase lace, and an all-over design is one of our favorites—it’s upscale, refined, and certainly wedding-worthy.

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An Ultra-Glamorous Look

Bride sitting on a window ledge in an off-the-shoulder beaded dress — Photo by Second Shots Photography

Searching for an ultra-glamorous outfit? Opt for an ensemble that emphasizes embellishments. For instance, this bride chose an off-the-shoulder mermaid dress decked out in Swarovski crystal accents, which screamed luxury on her big day in Atlanta. The sequined-studded shoulder straps, the plunging neckline, and the tulle skirt also helped reinforce her lavish look.

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A Simple, Off-the-Shoulder Number

bride wearing an off-the-shoulder wedding dress with a sleek fabric and a birdcage veil — Photo by Chi-Chi Ari Love

Is your style simple yet elegant? Then, consider a pared-back look without any add-ons. An off-the-shoulder getup sans accents will call attention to the delicate neckline and flowy fabric. To top off your outfit with a bit of edge, replace the classic veil with a birdcage iteration.

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Dreamy Shoulder Streamers

Bride in a simple dress with a V-neck and shoulder streamers — Photo by We the Romantics

Today, many brides are experimenting with unique ways to dress up a customary white wedding dress. For example, at her minimalist soirée in Houston, this bride slipped on a classic gown with a deep V-neck and two chiffon panels that cascaded from her straps. Shoulder streamers are a stunning way to add movement to your outfit while reimagining the traditional wedding veil.

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A Silk Emerald Green Jacket

While we've discussed a few different variations of suits for your wedding outfit, leaning into rich hues and textures is another way to revamp an expected garment for your special day. This silk emerald jacket with black lapels, for example, is the perfect choice for fall or winter nuptials where jewel tones reign supreme. Of course, deluxe fêtes in a ballroom, castle, or historic property are also suitable backdrops that will animate this piece.

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