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11 Tips for Selecting the Perfect Engagement Photo Outfit

Several experts break down what to wear—and what not to wear—as a couple when planning this pre-wedding photoshoot.

a man and woman kissing in a grassy open field next to two horses

Photo by KT Merry

Stumped on what you and your partner should wear for your engagement photos? Don't worry, you're not alone: This is an age-old fashion dilemma many couples go through when planning this pre-wedding photoshoot. As these sentimental snapshots will appear on everything, from your save-the-dates and wedding website to the walls of your first home, the pressure to look your best can make finding an outfit a bit difficult. Plus, given the vast amount of brands and stores available to shop from today, choosing the perfect ensemble can feel nearly impossible, especially if you don't know what to look for and how to style yourself.

Before you get completely overwhelmed, though, allow us to share some good news: Finding an outfit for these all-important pictures doesn't have to be a daunting task. In fact, there are multiple ways for you and your partner to find complementary ensembles that'll look absolutely stunning when photographed. All you need to do is follow these 11 tips from stylists and photographers regarding what to wear (and what not to wear) for your upcoming engagement shoot. Read on for everything you need to know.

a couple wearing floral embroidered shirts (that match a paintings behind them) posing in a gallery

Photo by Rachel Pearlman

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Wear Clothes That Reflect Your Personal Styles

If you're strictly a t-shirt and jeans kind of couple, now's not the time to pull out a beaded ball gown and tux. "The couple should feel comfortable in the outfits they choose," says Jessica D'Onofrio of Jessica D'Onofrio Photography in Los Angeles. "They should still look like themselves, but at their best. Wardrobe choices that are extremely outside their level of comfort will make them look and feel awkward in photos."

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Complement Each Other—But Don't Match

Complementing your partner's look is one thing, but "matching outfits and patterned prints aren't ideal for portrait sessions," says Michelle Cross of Michelle Cross Photography in Oregon. "When deciding how you and your partner will dress, look for complementary colors and solid prints. Try to stay away from anything too busy, as it can be an unnecessary distraction in photos."

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Consider Tones

You'll want to avoid anything neon, lest you'll end up looking like a hot, blinking sign, warns Jillian Requeima of Jillian Tree Photography in Miami. "I also find orange is the least photogenic color, while red is the color your eye is drawn to immediately—and you don't necessarily want your shirt or skirt to be the focus of your photograph. You want your faces and the love between you to stand out."

Requeima suggests wearing pastels, cool hues, or neutrals, then adding a bright accent with your accessories.

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Tie Everything Together With a Color Scheme

Once you have an idea of what colors you'll be wearing for your engagement shoot, consider how that color will translate throughout the entire album. You want to create synergy, rather than have the final result look like a jumbled collection of images. "For example, if you love light blue, you can wear this [hue] as a dress or a jumpsuit," says Kimmie Smith, a celebrity fashion stylist in New York City. Then, have your partner incorporate the same shade in a later look during the shoot to tie everything together without being overly matchy-matchy.

woman and man smiling at each other while playfully posing for a photo in a tropical setting

Photo by Logan Cole

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Incorporate at Least One Accessory

Accessories, such as a stylish scarf or necklace, can add extra pizzazz to any engagement ensemble. Plus, they're easy to slip on and off, which means you'll be able to style a variety of looks. "Adding in at least one accessory per outfit for the ladies, and wearing layers of clothing for the guys, are two things that photograph well because it adds more visual interest to their looks and, as a result, to the images," explains Kelsy McCartney of the McCartneys in Wisconsin.

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Opt for Classic, Rather Than Trendy, Looks

You may love that black-and-white maxi dress now, but next year you may only be reminded of a referee when you see yourself in head-to-toe stripes. "I always recommend looks that will remain timeless, rather than outfits that could make your images feel dated a few years down the road," D'Onofrio shares.

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Stick With Two Outfits

Don't fall victim to treating your engagement session as a full-fledged fashion photo shoot. "You're going to have a million wedding photos where you're all dolled up and looking gorgeous," Cross says. "These are the pictures where you get to remember who you are at the end of the day when it's only the two of you. Two outfits are more than enough to reflect this in couples, and it ensures you won't spend your entire engagement session in a rush to change into the next set of clothes."

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Garner Inspiration from Throwback Photos

Browse through old photos of you and your partner together, as well as individually. Now pick out the absolute best fashion aspects of those pictures, and emulate the styles you love the most for your engagement shoot. "Seeing what makes sense and what you're into will help give you some guidance," notes Smith.

couple sitting on a vespa in semi-formal attire

PHOTO BY BOTTEGA53 STUDIO

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Create Visual Interest With Unexpected Pairings

Smith loves incorporating attention-grabbing fabrics (think: lace, fur, leather, etc.) into a couple's engagement shoot outfits. "These elements add a ton of visual texture, which in turn brings more warmth to your images," explains Smith. "Plus, they'll work well with whatever scenery you decide on."

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Use a Rental Service

On a budget but want to snag a designer wardrobe? We get it. These photos are meant to last the test of time, and your engagement is deemed special enough of an occasion to warrant the purchase of a gorgeous designer piece. If you're just buying the piece for the photoshoot, however, you might consider renting from a website or subscription service like Rent the Runway or Nuuly. Both options make it easy (and more affordable) to access high-end looks that you may only wear once.

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Think About the Season

Bikinis won't work for a winter engagement, and a cowl neck scarf doesn't work in the summer. Take advantage of the season you're in by styling a look that's in tune with the climate and location.

Winter and Fall

Don't be afraid to bundle up; living in Maine, photographer Emily Delamater knows this firsthand. "My favorite tip is to wear fleece-lined tights under jeans or pants," she says. "Winter accessories can be really cute. Plus, it makes more sense visually to be dressed for winter if you're being photographed in the snow."

Summer and Spring

Wondering what to wear for engagement shoots that take place during warmer seasons? Channel summertime vibes by going barefoot on the beach or sharing a cone on the pier in sandals and shorts. With flowers in bloom and love in the air, you can't go wrong with subtle floral prints and spring-approved pastel hues that speak to the season. Pair a maxi dress with a statement necklace or a sundress with a denim jacket for a sweet look.

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