
Photo by Ryan Ray
After you get engaged, one of the first planning to-dos on your list is choosing a wedding venue. For some couples, this process is as simple as taking a look around their own backyard (or their parents') and deciding that they've found "the one." Backyard weddings are meaningful, personalized events from the jump: What could be more special than tying the knot on a property where you (or your parent) romped around from childhood? And while they often get pegged as budget-friendly alternatives to more formal celebrations, we're here to tell you that a backyard wedding can be just as stunning and formal as one held in a traditional venue—if you want it to be, that is!
While there's no venue fee associated with tying the knot at home, it's important to note that backyard weddings generally do not cost less than a celebration in any other space. After all, you need to bring in rentals, catering, and staff, will likely need some sort of tenting as an inclement weather backup, and might even need to source additional power or water supplies to make the day run smoothly. These line items all come with their own price tags, so understanding the costs from the outset is key.
There are a number of reasons why you might want to tie the knot at home. For one, you might love the property you grew up on or live at now and want to share it with everyone you love most. That was wedding planner Alicia Fritz's thought as she dreamed up her own big day. "For us, it was all about sharing our home with our family and friends, and inviting them into this day with us. Our guest list was very diverse. We wanted to bring the level of comfort and familiarity to a group that was unfamiliar with each other, and we thought there is nothing better to break down barriers or ingratiate our guests than inviting them to our home."
Meet the Expert
Alicia Fritz is the founder of A Day in May, a luxury event planning company. She has been planning, designing, and producing weddings for over a decade, including her very own at-home backyard nuptials.
For others, the creative freedom (and lack of limitations) that come with a backyard wedding is most appealing. You (or your family members) are the ones calling the shots, so barring anything like local noise ordinances (you'll likely want to cut amplified sound by 10 PM to avoid any police incidents), you'll be able to do just about anything you can dream of. Fritz says this freedom is one of the greatest advantages of a backyard wedding. "Aside from our own wedding, A Day in May Events is often working with blank canvases, like an empty and sprawling lawn or landscape, to transform into a wedding venue," she says. "The ability to build the venue the way you want it, or envision it, is a gift." So let your creativity run wild with inspiration.
So, if you agree that there really is no place like home, a backyard wedding might be the right choice for you. To inspire your own event—and prove that at-home celebrations can be just as chic and elevated as any other wedding—we're sharing 50 of our favorite ideas to copy for your own big day.
Use Your Home as a Photo Backdrop
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Photo by Elizabeth Warrick
If you're tying the knot at home, why not let it star prominently in your photos? At this formal backyard wedding in California, the bride and groom posed for photos with the exterior of the house in the background.
Spread Out
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Photo by Camera Shi Photography
Don't feel pressured to keep your wedding in just one part of your backyard. At this summer wedding in Seattle, the couple and their planner, Valley & Company Events, chose to spread out across the entire yard, and the results were stunning. A mix of round and long tables, as well as seating areas with umbrellas, were arranged around a checkered dance floor that served as the celebration's anchoring detail.
Have a Rain Plan
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Photo by Elizabeth Warrick
"While we all hope for sunny weather [on a wedding day], it’s not always the case," says Fritz. "Make sure you have a rain plan first, before you have your sunshine plan. This will help you mentally prepare for any disappointing weather on the day of the celebration, but it will also help you critically think through what to do if it rains and how you will keep your guests and vendor teams comfortable, safe, and dry." For many outdoor at-home nuptials—just like this celebration in California—having a tented space should you need it is key.
"Be realistic about the space that you have in your backyard," advises Fritz. "If you need a tent due to a rain plan (or your design vision), make sure your guest list marries with your tent size."
Enjoy a Sentimental First Look
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Photo by Chaz Cruz Photographers
On the fence about having a first look? If you ask our editors, it's a no-brainer for a backyard wedding. Not only will you be able to pose for photos in a sentimental location on the property, à la this sweet couple, who tied the knot at home in Illinois, but it also helps you circumvent a potential logistical problem: Since you may not have that many spaces for portraits, getting them wrapped before guests arrive will be helpful.
Send Guests Home With Homemade Favors
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Photo by Mason Neufeld Photography
While there's no rule that says you have to give favors at all, we love the idea of sending guests home with something homemade at the end of a backyard wedding. At this cozy celebration in Canada, the bride and groom made and packaged hundreds of jars of jam to share with their attendees.
Elevate Your Entrance

Photo by Elizabeth LaDuca Photography
Hosting a tented celebration? Make your backyard wedding space pop by taking a page out of this couple's book: For their Connecticut wedding at the bride's family home, they happy pair their florist add plenty of greenery and flowers to the sheer draping that formed the entrance, creating an inviting (and statement-making!) entryway.
Build a Lounge That's in Keeping With Your Space
Photo by Jose Villa
Lounges are a great way to break up your wedding space, and they offer guests a nice reprieve from dancing once the party gets underway. At a backyard wedding, it's nice to select lounge furniture that's in keeping with the space. At this Bridgerton-inspired California wedding, garden-esque white furniture was selected for the lounge, which felt like a natural fit for the verdant yard.
Use the Front Yard, Too
Photo by Ryan Ray Photography
There's no rule that says a backyard wedding has to exclusively take place in the rear of your home. If your front property is also sizable, consider using each space for separate portions of the wedding. At this summer wedding at a Greenwich, Connecticut, home, the ceremony was held on the sprawling front lawn; after, guests moved to the backyard for a stunning reception.
Be Flexible With Your Setup
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Photo by Chaz Cruz Photographers
Your family backyard likely was not designed to be a wedding venue, so you might have to get a bit creative with the ceremony or reception layout based on your guest count. At this backyard wedding ceremony in Illinois, seating was place around a small grove of trees—including on an upper patio!—to ensure that everyone was able to see the couple swap vows.
Repurpose Furniture From Inside Your Home
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Photo by Radian Photography
Regardless of your final guest count, there's something inherently personal and intimate about an at-home wedding. Continue to play up those vibes by using your family's own furniture in the day's design. At this backyard wedding in Georgia, wooden display cabinets—complete with framed family photos—were used to display escort cards.
Line the Aisle With Growing Flowers

Photo by Jessica Mangia
We love the idea of decorating your backyard ceremony space with flowers that look almost as if they're an extension of your existing landscaping. Make like this couple and line the aisle with "growing" floral arrangements that appear to be sprouting straight out of the lawn.
Illuminate Your Party With String Lights
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Photo by Michellia Fine Imagery
"Chances are your home is not equipped with glamorous outdoor lighting to really make the property shine," says Fritz. "You don’t have to break the bank on lighting if it’s not in the budget, but making certain you create the mood and set the scene is critical for creating an ambience." The good news? It's possible to create a welcoming display with very little effort or cost. Illuminate an al fresco dinner and dance floor with a few overhead bistro lights, just like the couple did at this dreamy California wedding, or wrap them around the beams of a tent to highlight the structure.
Plan a Meaningful Exit
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Photo by Lucy Cuneo
Your wedding ceremony and reception might take place in your backyard, but consider utilizing the front of your home for your exit. At this elegant celebration in Nantucket, guests showered the couple with white flower petals as they departed out of the home's front door.
Take in Your Surroundings
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Photo by AGP Collective
Take full advantage of the natural splendor around you by hosting your ceremony in a space that highlights the beauty of your backyard. At this mountain wedding in Colorado, the couple creatively hosted their ceremony between two fences, which afforded guests the best view of the mountains behind. Because your backyard wasn't designed to be a ceremony space, you might need to think creatively about the best place to swap vows.
Tie the Knot Beneath a Beloved Tree

Photo by Radian Photography
Do you have a favorite feature of your yard? Let that serve as a prominent element of your big-day design. At this family-focused backyard wedding in Georgia, the couple traded vows beneath a towering willow tree that the bride's father had planted when she was just a little girl.
Include Your Pets
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Photo by Pat Furey Photography
One of the key benefits to a backyard wedding is that you're not limited to a venue's rules. That means your pet (or pets!) can be present for as much of the celebration as you'd like. At this at-home wedding in Pennsylvania, the couple's pup (clad in a mini tux!) was able to join in on the fun.
Get Ready in Your Childhood Bedroom
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Photo by Radian Photography
Another benefit to a backyard wedding? The freedom to get ready in your own space, just like the bride and her attendants did at this wedding in Georgia. If you're tying the knot at your parents' home, prepping for your big day in your childhood bedroom can be an especially sentimental moment.
Make a Theme

Photo by Brian D. Smith Photography
A home can be a neutral base to whatever design dreams you have for your wedding. At this chic wedding in South Carolina, metallic décor elements were brought in to create a glam theme to the celebration.
Transform Your Pool
Photo by Corbin Gurkin Photography
Transform your pool into the visual focal point of your wedding. During the ceremony, a makeshift walkway can serve as the aisle. Afterward, it can double as the entrance to your reception. You can also go full glam and have a dance floor built over the pool.
Select Cohesive Décor
Photo by Laura Murray
While a backyard wedding can be budget-friendly, you don't have to skimp on décor if you don't want to. At this at-home wedding in Los Angeles, the couple worked with Plenty of Petals to create an over-the-top floral chuppah, which was erected beneath a pepper tree in the bride's parents’ backyard where she and her sister always picked geraniums as kids. The bloom-heavy design was chosen to match the rest of the stunning florals that were used throughout the reception.
Make Your Space Work for You
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Photo by Elizabeth Warrick
You don't need a sprawling, expansive backyard in order to have a wedding at home. As evidenced by this wedding, you can tie the knot right alongside the perimeter of your home. Maximize your space by utilizing every inch of lawn, and don't worry about getting your house in the photos—it makes it all the more charming!
Turn a Patio Into a Dance Floor
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Photo by Etcetera Photography
If your backyard has a patio, there's no need to create a special setup. Just arrange your seating to allow for an open area to dance with family and friends.
Make Your Entrance From Your Front Door
Photo by Ryan Ray
At this at-home wedding in Connecticut, both the front and back yards were used for the big day. The ceremony, which was held on the sprawling front yard, was oriented towards the road so that the bride could make her grand entrance from the family's front door. This is a sweet and sentimental option to consider for your own celebration.
Decorate the Front Porch
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Photo by Clean Plate Pictures
It's always fun to wow wedding guests with a statement-making entrance, and there are so many creative ways to do this for your backyard wedding. One simple and impactful option? Arrange a lush garland of flowers and greenery near the door—at this wedding, the front porch not only welcomed guests, but also served as an excellent backdrop for photos.
Let Your Pool Be a Focal Point
Photo by Laura Murray
Working around a pool can be a challenge when designing a backyard wedding: Depending on the size of your yard, that unusable swimming feature might be eating up precious space. Though some couples choose to cover a pool in order to regain square footage, it's fun when you can work it into the celebration's design. At this backyard wedding, cocktail hour took place around the pool's perimeter; though it was pretty all on its own, discuss floating candles or flowers in the water with your planner and florist if you want to do something similar.
Serve Desserts Made in Your Own Kitchen
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Photo by Mason Neufeld Photography.
Enhance the homey vibes of a backyard wedding by serving desserts that were made (or look like they were made) in your own kitchen. At this autumnal wedding in Canada, guests dug into a dessert bar with offerings like pie and whoopie pies whipped up by the bride and groom's aunts and close friends.
Host a Dinner Party Wedding
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Photo by Joe + Kathrina
The dinner party wedding is a popular trend for nuptials with a smaller guest count, and the style is especially nice when you're hosting a backyard wedding. If you like the idea, make like this couple—who wed at home in California—and make the bulk of your investments in food and tabletop décor, letting the rest of your space shine on its own.
Let Signage Detract From Any Space You Don't Love
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Photo by Lynn Dunston Photography
You love your home enough to tie the knot there, but that doesn't mean there aren't some elements you might want to camouflage. Take, for example, garage doors: While they're certainly not going to ruin the aesthetics of the day, you may want to downplay how prominently they'll be seen by guests and in photos. If that's the case, make like this couple—who wed at their home in California— and display beautiful signage in front of them, which draws everyone's eyes away from the doors and onto the pretty scripting.
Tie the Knot in a Field
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Photo by Karen Hill Photography
For couples with family homes on farmland, find a beautiful spot in a field full of grasses and wildflowers to say "I do." The natural terrain creates a beautiful backdrop for your vows.
Use Indoor Furniture for Your Décor

Photo by Plum & Oak Photography
There's no need for excessive rentals for a wedding at home. You can make use of some furniture from indoors to complete your wedding design. At this wedding, gold bookcases were repurposed as an escort card display with table numbers in glassware.
Let Guests Explore the Property

Photo by Ryan Ray
Encourage family members and friends to explore the property by placing different "moments" throughout the space. At this celebration in Connecticut, musicians were in one area, a fire pit was in another, and the bar was in another still. It's a great way to get everyone moving about.
Set Up Banquet Tables
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Photo by Max Wanger
Togetherness and intimacy are key tenets of backyard weddings, so reception seating that affords family members and friends the opportunity to mix and mingle is key. Long banquet tables or the slightly more narrow king's tables set a warm, communal tone that is often lost with other seating arrangements, so consider making like this couple (who tied the knot in a family-focused wedding in California) and go with a similar setup. Bonus: These long tables are a great way to maximize your space.
Find Every Opportunity for Decoration

Photo by Ryan Ray Photography
Displaying florals throughout the grounds of your property is a meaningful way to create a dreamy, cohesive setting. Pillars and staircases are prime spots to wrap garlands, but potted urns and even planted displays are great ways to reinforce the color palette and aesthetic of the day.
Opt for Family-Style Service

Photo by SoCal Standard
Another way to make your backyard wedding more personalized? Choose the right style of dinner service. Though pre-plated meals are always nice, family-style service just feels right for a backyard wedding: Guests can interact as they pass plates back and forth, and it's almost as if you've invited your nearest and dearest over for a meal at your ho
Use Your Own Dinnerware

Photo by Joe + Kathrina
For a smaller backyard wedding, you can further personalize the day by having guests dine on your own dinnerware. At this dinner party wedding in California, the couple specifically chose a rental company that also sold their place settings, which allowed them to grab a set for future use. “We wanted to be able to have our wedding table setting for the rest of our lives," the bride said.
Create Clear Paths for Guests

Photo by Henry & Mac
Assist your guests in navigating their way through the nuptial festivities by carving out a path for them. Remember: You may know this space like the back of your hand, but most of your guests do not, and since it wasn't created with events in mind, it might be lacking the essentials necessary for a safe and successful celebration. "Pay attention to guest flow," says Fritz. "Think critically about how your guests will arrive at your home and where they will depart from." Lanterns and candles are great options, but you can also add signage, create physical walkways, or have attendants on-hand to direct loved ones from space to space.
Consider a Rental

Photo by Holtz Wedding Photography
Who said your backyard wedding had to be in your backyard? Make like this couple, who tied the knot in upstate New York, and rent a property with amazing views for a larger-scale celebration with all the trappings of home.
Have Your After-Party on a Nearby Patio

Photo by Will Reid Photography
As your backyard wedding's formal reception comes to a close, consider moving the party to a more intimate area of the property. A patio or deck close to the house can serve as an excellent after-party location for merrymakers who are interested in extending the celebration.
Create a Drink Station

Photo by Amber Gress Photography
Hosting a backyard wedding doesn't mean you can't have a detail-heavy, highly experiential event. As this colorful wedding at a Hamptons home, guests were treated to welcome cocktails from this grab-and-go station upon arrival. If you're nervous about having enough staff at your wedding, a similar self-serve setup could work well for you.
Use Plants for Your Centerpiece

Photo by Lisa Poggi
Potted flowerless plants mimic the shrubbery of a backyard and make for stunning centerpieces. Cluster a few plants, baby fruit-bearing trees, and herbs from a local garden store for a visual masterpiece that will smell just as good as it looks. Bonus: The plants can live on as landscaping for the backyard instead of meeting a quick demise.
Embrace the Natural Beauty of Your Home

Photo by Lucy Cuneo
Though there's nothing wrong with transforming your backyard with tenting, flowers, and lighting, it's not always necessary for a beautiful wedding. If you love the unspoiled, natural landscaping, consider letting that shine on your big day. At this intimate wedding in Nantucket, the couple dressed their backyard up with just one long table—complete with small floral arrangements and candles—and let the beauty of the local shine.
Use Homey Décor

Photo by Will Reid Photography
At this black-tie backyard wedding in Canada, home-inspired décor was used to further drive the vibe home. Squiggly frames were used to house table numbers, but you could employ a similar design strategy throughout your celebration—frames would be equally pretty to hold day-of signage, menus, and more.
Bring in Enough Lighting

Photo by Chaz Cruz Photographers
The pre-existing landscape lighting at your home likely isn't enough for your wedding, so it's important to ensure that you're adequately illuminating your event with additional rentals. It's important that guests can see the event (and that your photographer can actually photograph it!), but low lighting can also be a safety risk. Plus, if your home has beautiful gardens and design, don't you want everyone to have a chance to see it?
Set Up Games

Photo by Katherine Marchand
For a more casual backyard wedding, set up areas for games where guests can take a fun break from dancing. Oversized lawn games, like chess, checkers, and giant Jenga, are always winners.
Throw a BBQ

Photo by Katherine Marchand
Set up outdoor grills and have your catering team (or your favorite grill-master) cook the evening meal on site. Warning: Your guests may be a bit distracted during the cocktail hour with the delicious smells of fire and smoke permeating the air.
"Make sure you have a clear and spacious area for your caterer," advises Fritz. "If they are cooking out of your home, consider a cleaning service or extra hands to put your home back together."
Hire a Live Band

Photo by Sasithon Photography
Backyard weddings don't have to be casual, budget-friendly affairs (unless you want them to be!), so if you've always dreamed of having a live band perform during your reception, go ahead and hire the group of your dreams. At this Hudson Valley wedding, the couple and their guests loved dancing to the 10-piece band.
Rent a Dance Floor

Photo by Adriana Rivera
A challenge that couples face when planning backyard weddings is how they'll define each space—after all, at pre-existing wedding venues, the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception spaces are largely dictated ahead of time. At this at-home wedding in Miami, the couple rented a dance floor surface to help define their party space and create an epic backdrop for photos. If you're tying the knot at home, splurging on a special rental can have a huge impact on the look and feel of the reception.
Keep Guests Comfortable

Photo by Chris & Ruth
Backyard weddings are all about building an intimate and comforting atmosphere. Help your guests cozy up as the temperature drops throughout the night by providing shawls or blankets for them to wrap up in. If you plan on winding down around a bonfire later, these favors are an absolute must.
Indulge in Local Delicacies

Photo by Chi-Chi Ari
The great thing about having a wedding at home? You know all the best local food. Why not pay tribute and incorporate these gems into the festivities by having them cater or set up a late-night food cart? At this coastal backyard celebration, a beloved local business served frozen lemonades to thirsty guests.
Plan a Creative Getaway

Photo by Sydney Noelle Photography
One of the best things about a backyard celebration is that you don't have to travel very far between events or to get some rest. Don't let that deter you from having a unique getaway vehicle, though! A fun exit is a photo opp you don't want to miss.